What to Wear for Your Boudoir Photoshoot (Even If You Don't Own Lingerie)
- Abbie Firth
- Oct 1
- 6 min read
Beyond Traditional Lingerie Options
Not everyone owns fancy lingerie and that’s completely fine. That oversized shirt hanging in your wardrobe? It might be your best boudoir outfit yet. A soft white button-down, an old band tee, or a comfy jumper can create a relaxed, effortless look that feels both authentic and flattering.
What works beautifully:
Your favourite worn-in t-shirt (bonus points if it has meaning)
A basic vest top paired with boy shorts or knickers
Any fitted bodycon dress that hugs your shape
Cosy knee high socks for warmth and softness
Personal items add a special touch to boudoir photos. Wearing your partner’s shirt, football jersey, or hoodie can add a personal, intimate touch, and often helps you relax in front of the camera. Items with texture, like cable knits, lace trims, or silk, photograph especially well.
Remember, the best outfits are ones that make you feel good in your skin. The goal isn't perfection – it's capturing the real you in a flattering, comfortable way.
Creating a Boudoir Look Without Lingerie
Don't own lingerie? No problem! You can create stunning boudoir photos with clothes you already have in your closet.
Casual Comfort Options
Your comfy clothes can be super sexy in photos:
Cosy sweaters look amazing when worn off one shoulder or draped loosely
Button-down shirts create a flirty vibe when worn open with just a hint of skin showing
Simple cotton tops paired with underwear can feel both casual and intimate
Think about texture too - a soft knit sweater looks cosy against bare skin in photos.
Outfits You Already Own
Look through your wardrobe for:
Fitted dresses that hug your curves in all the right places
Cute pyjama sets (silk or cotton both work great!)
Off-shoulder tops that show some skin while keeping you comfortable
A simple vest top with the straps slipped down can be just as sexy as fancy lingerie. The key is how you wear it - with comfort and confidence.
TIP: Neutral tones like black, white, and beige always photograph beautifully, but don’t be afraid of colour. If you love it, it’ll show.
Remember, boudoir isn't just about what you wear - it's about capturing your unique beauty and personality in a way that makes you feel amazing.
Accessorise Your Boudoir Look
The right accessories can transform a simple outfit into something truly special for your boudoir photos. Small touches often make the biggest impact!
Jewellery That Enhances Photos
Simple jewellery adds a touch of sparkle without stealing focus from you. Consider:
Delicate chains that draw the eye to your neckline
Stud or small hoop earrings that catch the light
Bracelets or anklets for subtle detail in hand or foot poses
Rings that can become focal points in close-up shots
Avoid pieces that might look bulky or distract from your natural beauty. The best jewellery complements rather than competes.
Non-Clothing Accessories
Some of the most striking boudoir photos include these non-clothing elements:
A pair of heels - even with just a t-shirt, they add instant confidence
A silk scarf or kimono - can be worn many ways or used as a prop
Hair accessories - like clips or a simple flower
Props with meaning - glasses, a book, or your morning coffee
Think about items that show your personality.
💡 Pro Tip: Bring more accessories than you think you'll need! It's better to have options than to wish you'd packed that special necklace or pair of heels.
The Power of Layers in Boudoir Photography
Layers add depth and interest to boudoir photos without needing fancy lingerie. Think about how a simple look transforms when you add just one more item.
Creating Depth with Layers
Layering isn't just about staying warm - it's about creating visual interest and giving your photographer more to work with:
Open cardigans over bras create a casual, cosy feel while still showing skin
Unbuttoned shirts (yours or a partners) suggest intimacy without revealing too much
Kimonos and robes flow beautifully in photos and can be adjusted for more or less coverage
When you layer, you create a story within your photos. Each piece can be adjusted or removed during your session, giving you multiple looks from just a few items.
Body-Positive Options for Every Body Type
Looking great in boudoir photos isn't about having a certain body type - it's about finding items that make you feel amazing. The best part? You don't need to buy fancy lingerie to look stunning.
Flattering Choices for All Sizes
Finding clothes that work with your unique shape can boost your confidence during your photoshoot:
High-waisted bottoms create a classic silhouette that looks good on everyone
A-line styles flow beautifully from the waist down in photos
Wrap designs adjust to your body and create nice lines
Focus on Your Favourite Features
We all have parts of our bodies we like best. Why not show them off?
Love your shoulders? Try off-shoulder tops or halter neck bras
Proud of your legs? Shorts or a shirt that hits mid-thigh work wonders
Want to highlight your back? Backless tops or dresses create stunning shots
The secret to great boudoir photos isn't perfect lingerie - it's wearing what makes you feel good. When you feel comfortable, it shows in your photos. Remember, these photos are about celebrating YOU, not what you're wearing.
Preparing Your Outfits for Your Session
What to Bring to Your Shoot
You only need to bring up to three outfits for your boudoir session. This gives us a perfect balance - enough variety to create different moods, without feeling rushed or overwhelmed on the day.
When choosing your three looks, aim for a mix of:
One outfit that feels sexy (like lingerie, or a fitted dress)
One that feels cosy or casual (like an oversized shirt or soft jumper)
One that feels personal or meaningful (like your partner’s t-shirt or something sentimental)
A mix of light and dark colours
That simple formula works beautifully and gives your gallery a great range of styles and emotions.
Outfit Planning Tips
Taking care of your clothes before the shoot helps them look their best in photos:
Steam or iron everything the night before
Cut off any tags that might stick out
Check for holes, stains, or loose threads
Try everything on ahead of time
Pack items in a garment bag to keep them neat
FAQ: Boudoir Wardrobe Questions
Let me tackle some of the most common questions my clients ask about what to wear for their boudoir sessions:
How many outfits should I bring?
For a standard session, bring up to 3 outfit options, as well as your props, accessories, and shirts etc. This gives us plenty to work with while not feeling rushed. If you're unsure, just bring extra and I'll help you decide on the day!
What colours photograph best?
Black or white is always classic, but don't shy away from colours that make you feel good. Rich jewel tones like deep red, navy, and emerald look stunning on paler skin. Brighter vivid colours will pop on tanned or darker skin.
Can I just wear a sheet?
Absolutely! A simple silk sheet creates beautiful, tasteful images that focus on your natural beauty. I'll guide you through poses that are both tasteful and stunning.
Do I need to buy new things?
Not at all! Sometimes the best boudoir outfits are often items you already own that make you feel amazing. That old t-shirt from your partner? Perfect. Your favourite cosy sweater? Bring it! Comfort shows in photos.
Why Choose AF Boudoir for Your Photoshoot
I know that picking a photographer for such a personal shoot isn't easy. At AF Boudoir, I create a space where you'll feel totally comfortable, no matter what you're wearing.
Unlike other studios, I focus on making your true beauty shine through. My clients often tell me they've never felt more beautiful or confident.
Expert Guidance Every Step of the Way
When you book with me, you get:
Personalised wardrobe consultation before your shoot
Download our free Lingerie Style Guide for more ideas
Professional styling during your session
I'll help you pick outfits that make you feel amazing and look stunning in photos. No need to stress about what to wear!
Book Your Boudoir Experience Today
Ready to plan your perfect wardrobe for a boudoir session? I'll help you create stunning photos with whatever you choose to wear. Contact me today to book your session!